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Arlene Pellicane is a marriage advocate dedicated to helping couples build strong, joyful relationships. Through her books, podcasts, and speaking engagements, she challenges the narrative that marriage is inherently difficult, instead presenting it as a fulfilling and worthwhile commitment. Drawing from her own 26-year marriage, Arlene emphasizes that while obstacles may sometimes emerge, they can be navigated successfully with the right mindset and dedication.
The Importance of Compatibility and Character
Arlene stresses the significance of truly knowing a partner before marriage, advocating for time, patience, and careful observation of character. She shares insights from her own love story, where friendship provided a solid foundation for a lasting marriage. Key factors such as conflict resolution, integrity, and family interactions help determine long-term compatibility, and she encourages individuals to seek guidance from trusted friends and family when making relationship decisions.
The Benefits of Marriage
Citing research, Arlene highlights that married individuals often report greater happiness and well-being compared to those who are single or in non-committed relationships. She believes marriage provides emotional security, companionship, and a sense of purpose, which contribute to long-term fulfillment. Her work dispels common misconceptions by showing that marriage, when approached with effort and intentionality, can be a deeply rewarding experience.
Practical Advice for Strengthening Relationships
Through her latest book, Making Marriage Easier, Arlene offers actionable strategies for nurturing a thriving marriage. She advocates for prioritizing quality time, maintaining open communication, and fostering gratitude between partners. By equipping couples with practical tools, she empowers them to build resilient, loving relationships that stand the test of time.
Listen to this episode to learn about...
- [6:13] Arlene shares how she met her husband James
- [14:55] Learning about marriage from successful couples
- [21:44] The big value of premarital counseling
Tune into the Members Only episode to learn what Arlene calls the “power hour” and why married couples must make time for it
Resources:
- National Marriage Week
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National Marriage Week on Facebook
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